How Friendship Breaks... My Friends Gift

Hello all

HOW FRIENDSHIP BREAK   ?                                                                                                                                         Both Friends Will Think The Other Is Busy                                                                                                                                                                             And Will  Not Contact Thinking It May Be Disturbing                                                                                                                      As Time Passes                                                                                                                                       Both Will Think Let The OTher Contact                                                                                                                                  After That each Will Think Why I Should Contact First   ?                                                                                                                     Here Your Love Will  Be Converted To Hate                                                                                                                        Finally Without Contact The Memory Becomes Weak                                                                                                                   They Forget Each Other.                                                                                          So Keep In Touch With All  And Pass This TO All Your Friends...                                                                                                           .                                          I Don`t Want To One Of  This Kind.                                                                                                                               So Here I Am sending Mail To Every One                                                                                     To Say                                                                                                                                                                                                                       Dear                                                                                                                         I Am  Fine Here                                                                                                                             Please keep in touch with me                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Keep Smiling!

                                                                                

What is Prayer..Swami Chinmayananda...

Through prayer alone devotion is deepened and fulfilled.  To turn ardently our hearts into the Lord, to offer our all at His Altar in our infinite love, to bow down in total surrender at His feet, to cry in the joy of the flooding love, this is prayer at its fullest.  Where individuality is merged in His sacred temple of Love, Universality starts, the experience of the Infinite in us unfolds.

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Harnessing the Mind-Power.

When we are told that we must control our minds we wonder why we should do this.  What is wrong if you live and act as your minds demand, as you feel like at any moment.

 No harm.  The Lord has given you a splendid mind and a beautiful world.  But always remember that the entire Niagara Falls Cannot light up a even a single bulb until it is tunnelled on to the dynamo.

  Steam cannot make the steam engine work unless it is contained.  The mind cannot bring out its full force and strength to achieve for you success, unless it is disciplined, tunneled and contained.....

How To Overcome Your Shyness...Dr. Anjana Maitra

Shyness is a human quality that everybody feels at some point of time in their lives.

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Shyness reveals itself in various ways - dry mouth, shaking hands, sweaty palms, loss of words, etc.

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Where does shyness come from?  In some cases, genes contribute.  Parents of shy children are often shy themselves.  The social environment or certain incidents of our early life also make us shy.  For example, if you are a sensitive child and your teacher ridicules you for giving a wrong answer in the class, you may not raise your hand to give an answer in future.

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At the root of shyness is self-doubt, leading to self-defeat.  Professionally we are afraid to express our needs and goals to our superiors.  Socially, we are unable to go forward and say "hellow" and we by-pass the opportunity of meeting an important person.

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More often than not, we feel that everyone's eyes are looking at us, each of our smallest actions are being minutely observed and that our manners or gestures are under a searching look.  As a result we stop going out, avoid mixing with people, do not take the initiative to introduce ourselves at a social gathering, expressing our views and so on.

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How, then, can we fight against shyness?  A few tips given below will help you to overcome shyness and face the world bravely.

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Don't Avoid Situations-- Our shyness is often increased when we avoid certain situations.  For Example, opportunity to give a talk, attending a party where most invitees may be unknown, participating in a Group Discussion and so on.  It is better to move forward and take advantage of the opportunity.

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Think Positivie -- Positive thinking can help you to conquer almost any difficulty.  Don't encourage any self-doubts, e.g. "Is my dress OK for the occasion?"  "Am I well prepared for the presentation?" or "Shall I have a friend at the party?" and so on.  Pay attention to your body language - look friendly, make eye contact and smile....

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Take Small Steps -- Don't set a big goal for yourself when you want to get rid of your shyness. If you are terrified of public speaking, Start by addressing your most trusted adult (parent or grandparent) then move to a small group of friends.  Then move to larger groups and after sometime your stage-fear will disappear and you will enjoy talking at the mike.

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Identify the causes...  Identify the causes of your shyness.  It could be something to do with your general appearance (your unruly hair, obesity etc.) or your slight stammer/unconscious gestures, or even a personality trait like forgetfulness.  Whatever it is, once you have identified it, you can go about rectifying it.  You can get a smart hair-cut, reduce weight, get your skin treated; your stammer may hardly be noticeable.  Try to remember names by jotting them down in your diary.  Conscious effort to work on weak points definitely pays rich dividends.  More often than not, it is inferiority complex that contributes to shyness.

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Join the crowd...  Joining a crowd is always easier.  So go ahead and join fund raising drive, signature campaign or a 'Walk for the Environment' with others, participate in a Group Discussion, join a group of people at a party discussing the latest Cricket Match and offer your views.  Soon you will feel your shyness disappearing.

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Appreciate yourself and look for ways to improve...  Remember, no one is perfect- everyone is born with good and bad qualities.  First count your blessings and remember your good qualities.  Then, learn to accept your faults and failures.

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Shyness is a natural and common trait and there is nothing to get worried about...."BALVIHAR"

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Kid-Leysssss....

A women went into a butcher shop and asked the boy at the counter, "Do you have any beef kid leys?


"I suppose you mean Kidneys", said the butcher....


"Well", said the woman, " that's what I saidle, diddle I"...?

Wrong Feet....

PINKY, YOU HAVE YOUR SHOES ON THE WRONG FEET....


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BUT THEY ARE THE ONLY FEET I HAVE.....